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Tell us who you are.
Apply privately. A matchmaker reads every application and gets to know the people invited onto the list.
By application · New York & San Francisco
A real matchmaker makes every introduction. One person at a time. No public profile, no feed, no endless swiping.
By application
Private by default
Mutual by design
Introduced, not swiped
The arrangement
One introduction. Two private decisions. Contact details only after a mutual yes.
How it works
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Apply privately. A matchmaker reads every application and gets to know the people invited onto the list.
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Introductions arrive one at a time, with enough context to make a real decision.
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You each say yes or pass in private. No one sees who declined.
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After a mutual yes, we share contact details and help turn the introduction into a date.
Good introductions have context
Members can vouch for people they know. A short note from a friend gives your matchmaker the part a profile cannot.
Vouches stay private. They are context for the matchmaker, not content for a public feed.
Request membershipMutuals dinners
Twelve people. One long table. Monthly dinners in New York and San Francisco, with no pressure to pair off.
See upcoming dinnersCoaching
Dating coaching for people on the list, and couples coaching for the pairs who met through us and the ones who found each other elsewhere.
Explore coachingEvery application is read by a person.